
I feel like I've done a pretty good job resisting the pull of these illustrated covers, but I confess that the adorable art plus the premise of this book captured me. Isadora Bentley, a researcher whose life isn't exactly happy, decides to follow the advice of a magazine article entitled 31 Ways To Be Happy and use herself as a test subject to note the efficacy of the author's suggestions. She wants to prove the article wrong: there is no subjective way to make oneself feel happy.
If I'm being honest, the Isadora of Chapter 1 almost made me put the book down. She and I did not have much in common. I'm a people person, while Isadora prefers to be alone. She was in the throes of an internal breakdown for reaching her thirtieth birthday, while I'm a decade beyond rolling my eyes at her dramatics. But thankfully it's early in the story that she finds the article and decides to begin her experiment, so Isadora didn't have the chance to drive me away before I was hooked.
As Isadora follows the 31 Ways To Be Happy, new people enter her life and things begin changing. Isadora begins looking at things and people in new ways. But is she happier?
This story ends up diving deep. And as we peel back the layers of Isadora, I found out I was wrong. Isadora and I do have things in common. Deep down, where we've each been abused and neglected and betrayed, we're the same person. The story unwraps and unwraps and unwraps until I, like Isadora, felt undone in her pursuit of happiness. The author lays it bare and presents us someone in her humanity. This is a brilliant piece of storytelling that is gripping and heartrending and hopeful all at the same time.
But for me, it also missed the mark. It hit off-center because there was no faith element. There had been a few passing mentions of God earlier in the story, which I was hoping would come back around. Our own pursuits can never bring us the fulfillment that a relationship with Jesus will bring. This story was ripe for such a message. It was right there. That would have made this one of the best books I've read this year. I was very disappointed. It's still a good book, but it is definitely not what it could be.
We all need Jesus. He is the true answer for healing from abuse, from neglect, from betrayal. There are absolutely things we can do to help with that process and our own happiness, but I believe ultimately they are empty without Him.
I wouldn't discourage anyone from reading this book, but I also can't wholeheartedly recommend it. It's a deep journey that I wish had gone just a bit deeper.
I received my copy of the book from NetGalley. All thoughts in this review are my own.